Should You Rent or Buy Right Now? Let’s Talk About It

Should You Rent or Buy Right Now? Let’s Talk About It

August 10, 20254 min read

Hi there — it’s Melinda! If you’ve found yourself wondering whether buying a home makes sense right now, you’re definitely not alone. With home prices still on the higher side and mortgage rates holding steady, renting might seem like the more comfortable choice—or maybe even the only choice for now.

And you know what? That feeling is totally valid.

Not everyone is in the right place to buy a home immediately. Buying should never feel forced. It's a big step, and it’s important to make that move when it truly makes sense for you—financially, emotionally, and timing-wise.

But if you’re weighing the pros and cons of renting vs. owning, I want to gently share something that’s often overlooked…


The Hidden Cost of Renting 🏠💸

Renting might feel simpler in the moment. Maybe it even costs less month-to-month where you live. And for some folks, that flexibility is exactly what they need right now.

But over time? Renting can quietly chip away at your financial goals.

A recent survey from Bank of America found that 70% of future buyers are worried about how long-term renting could impact their future—and honestly, that concern is well placed.

Even if owning feels out of reach today, having a plan to work toward homeownership can pay off in a big way down the line.

Let’s walk through why that is...


Buying a Home Isn’t Just About Where You Live—It’s About Building a Future 📈

When you purchase a home, you’re doing more than putting a roof over your head. You’re investing in your own financial well-being—brick by brick.

Here’s why: over the long run, home values tend to rise. So the longer you wait, the more expensive buying might become. Even if prices cool a bit in the short term, the overall trend is clear—real estate has historically appreciated over time.

Bar chart showing the average sales price of houses sold in the U.S. from 1988 to 2025, using quarterly data. The graph from Keeping Current Matters illustrates a steady rise in home prices with notable spikes around 2006 and again from 2020 to 2022, peaking above $500,000. Data sourced from the U.S. Census and HUD.

And every mortgage payment you make as a homeowner? That’s money going toward your equity—that powerful gap between what your home is worth and what you owe. Over time, that equity becomes part of your net worth.

Here’s a fact that always stops people in their tracks:

📊 The average homeowner’s net worth is nearly 40 times higher than the average renter’s.

Bar chart comparing the net worth of homeowner households versus renter households. Homeowners have a median net worth of $396,500, while renters have a median net worth of $10,410. Data from the Federal Reserve Board’s Survey of Consumer Finances, presented by Keeping Current Matters, highlights the nearly 40X wealth gap between the two groups.

That difference isn’t just a number—it’s what allows people to retire comfortably, fund college for their kids, or simply breathe easier knowing they’ve built a safety net.

As Forbes put it:

“While renting might seem like [the] less stressful option . . . owning a home is still a cornerstone of the American dream and a proven strategy for building long-term wealth.”


Why Renting Feels Easier (But Might Cost More Later) 🛠️💰

Let’s be honest—renting can feel like the path of least resistance. Lower commitment. Fewer repairs. No property taxes or lawn care.

But while you’re enjoying that convenience, rent prices have been steadily climbing for decades. Even if they’ve leveled out a bit lately, the long-term pattern shows consistent increases.

Bar graph showing the increase in U.S. median asking rent for vacant rental units from 1988 to 2025, based on Census data. The chart from Keeping Current Matters highlights a steady rise in rent prices, with significant spikes from 2021 to 2023, peaking near $1,500 per month.

That’s what makes saving for a home even harder over time. In that same Bank of America study, 72% of aspiring buyers said rising rent could impact both their current finances and their future goals.

And here’s something I remind my clients often:
When you rent, you’re still paying a mortgage—just not your own.

That monthly payment is helping someone else build equity, not you.


So, Which One Is Right for You? Let’s Look at the Big Picture

Here’s the heart of it:

  • Renting = your money is gone once you send the payment.

  • Owning = each payment builds something you get to keep.

Yes, buying takes effort and planning—and sometimes a leap of faith. But the long-term reward? It’s worth it.

I love how Joel Berner, Senior Economist at Realtor.com, explains it:

“Households working on their budget will find it much easier to continue to rent than to go through the expenses of homeownership. However, they need to consider the equity and generational wealth they can build up by owning a home that they can’t by renting it. In the long run, buying a home may be a better investment even if the short-run costs seem prohibitive.”

That perspective really captures what so many families face today. It’s not about rushing. It’s about planning—so when you are ready, you’re in a strong position to move forward with clarity and confidence.


Let’s Make a Plan That Works for You 🗓️✨

If you’re feeling unsure about how—or when—to move from renting to owning, you don’t have to figure it out alone.

Together, we can talk through your goals, crunch the numbers, and see what’s truly possible for your timeline and budget. Whether your dream home is six months or two years away, I’ll be here to guide you each step of the way.

📞 Call me at 860-985-4363 or head to melindatherealtor.com for your free consultation.
💬 Never too busy for you to be my #1 client

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